Many children in South Africa suffer silently from abuse and neglect. These children are not just statistics or stories; they are individuals with hopes, dreams, and rights.
It is our duty to ensure their voices are heard, respected, and acted upon, emphasised Dr Blanché Verster, head of social services for the SAVF.
According to the 2023-’24 crime statistics of the South African Police Service (SAPS), there were an alarming 4 300 kidnapping cases from July to September 2023, while 293 children and 881 women were murdered in the last quarter of 2023.
Statistics from September 2023 to February 2024 indicated that 348 children were reported missing across the country, with 207 of those children either found or returning voluntarily.
Of these reported cases, there are still 141 children missing. The names of some of these children are known, like Joshlin Smit.
Various reasons why children go missing
There are various reasons why children go missing, said Verster.
These includes children running away from home, mostly due to abuse;
children who get lost, such as mentally challenged children;
kidnappings happen such as ransom demand kidnapping, parental abductions, and opportunistic kidnappings; and
human trafficking happens for various reasons such as sexual exploitation, forced labour, illegal adoptions, organ trafficking, and begging rings.
Act immediately
When a child is missing, the incident must be reported to the police immediately – with emphasis on immediately.
Strict investigation protocols are in place to ensure all resources from the police and other role-players are coordinated in a tactical way.
South African laws to protect children must be effectively implemented and enforced. These laws must prioritise listening to children’s experiences. Listening to children is crucial because it empowers them and helps us understand their needs.
When children know they are heard, they feel more confident. Listening ensures our help is effective and tailored to their specific situations.
Cultural norms and societal attitudes often discourage children from speaking out. Fear of not being believed or fear of retaliation can silence them.
Know your child
Parents and caregivers have to talk to their children, and not only about them.
Make an effort to know your child’s friends – know their names, addresses and contact numbers. Be involved in your child’s life, but do not force it.
Build a trusting relationship and create a home environment where they want to be and bring their friends to visit.
Professionals need to ensure that the conversation takes place in a private, safe, and comfortable setting where the child feels secure. Give the child your full attention, showing that you are listening and that their words are important. Validate the child’s feelings and experiences without judgment or disbelief.
The voice of the child is a powerful tool in the fight against abuse and neglect. It is a voice that demands to be heard, respected, and acted upon.
By listening to and amplifying these voices, we not only protect our children but also pave the way for a future where they can thrive free from fear and harm.
The SAVF is committed to being the champion children need, ensuring that their voices lead us toward a safer, more compassionate South Africa.
