Valentine’s Day is just around the corner.
If you think Monday (14/02) might be the day to ask that all-important question, following a few tips might help to ensure that the proposal is memorable for all the right reasons.
- First, consider popping the big question at a place with sentimental value. It could be a restaurant where you had your first date, taking your relationship full circle. Have your nearest and dearest at a nearby vantage point. After you have popped the question and your partner says yes, wave everyone over so that they can congratulate you both and share in the happy moment.
- To avoid confusion or misunderstanding, say the words “will you marry me?” loud and clear.
- As you will want fabulous images of the proposal, hire a professional photographer.
- Try to propose during the day or early evening, so you can enjoy the rest of the evening with your partner.
- If you struggle with being romantic, smooth or sauve, avoid forcing it and coming across as insincere. Talk from the heart and be yourself.
- Do not read your speech. If you are nervous that you will forget everything you have to say, make a cheat sheet. Speak slowly and clearly.
- If your partner has children, include them in the proposal and even bring them in on the plan. Just make sure they can keep a secret.
- Wherever or however you propose, know you partner. If she is shy, do not do a public, elaborate, over-the-top proposal in front of large crowds. If you do not like it, it may very well be that your partner doesn’t either.
